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(Too Much Information Too Be Honest, TMI TBH)
Welcome! Whether youโre taking your first steps toward sobriety, celebrating years of alcohol-free living, or simply seeking inspiration and support, you'll find genuine stories, practical advice, and compassionate support to help you on your journey.
How do you want to come out of this quarantine?
I think it is helpful to keep your end goal in mind.
You are presented with an opportunity to learn about yourself.
You can day drink, sleep in, get lazy at your job, neglect your parenting duties.
You can use this time as an...
Alcohol; The Missing Link to Well-Being
When it comes to choosing a healthy beverage, wellness programs traditionally encourage drinking plenty of water, avoiding sugary drinks and limiting alcohol. As more wellness programs take a wider approach to improving well-being, it makes...
I have worked from home for over 10 years.
I have been between jobs.
I have worked in toxic cultures for unqualified managers.
I have owned my own business.
I have worked for large corporations and small family run businesses.
I worked for beautiful companies and wise people.
I have worked...
It’s no joke that we can turn to alcohol in times of stress, and for some it's a slippery slope.
With more people working remotely there is less separation, between work and home.
When telecommuting, there is no physical transition between work life and home life, and the lines...
“Building Resilience” is a popular term in the self help world.
I didn’t have a full understanding of what resiliency meant until COVID-19 happened, and social distancing was put in place.
You see, I’ve spent the past 2+ years building my resilience, by getting...
With the news of COVID-19 you might be tempted to stock up on alcohol along with toilet paper to survive the pandemic, potential lock down, and save your sanity.
If you are a drinker, one positive thing you can do for your health and the health of those around you, is ditch the drink. ...
I wanted to be a normal drinker.
I really did.
I tried very hard to keep myself in check.
Sometimes I could even play by the rules I set up for myself.
You know the rules.
No more than 3 drinks.
One an hour, wait an hour.
Drink one glass of water for every glass of...
International Women's Day, March 8th, 2020, is a global day celebrating the social, economic, cultural, and political achievements of women.
The IWD 2020 campaign theme is drawn from the notion of 'Collective Individualism.'
We are all parts of a whole.
Our individual actions, conversations,...
I became a student of my own problem when I ditched the drink.
I immersed myself in books, instagrammers, music, and everything alcohol free.
These sober tools were great guides and helped me to feel part of a larger community.
I was a lurker in this community, and now I am a contributor!
...
If drinking is good for my health then why do I feel like shit after I drink?
If drinking relaxes me, then why do I feel crippling anxiety after a night of drinking?
Well friends, I hate to tell you, but your beloved bottle of wine is doing more harm than good.
You know this...
I am celebrating 2 year sober.
Looking back, I'd like to tell my fragile newly sober self the lessons I've learned.
I hope it comforts you to know that ditching the drink is really uncomfortable.
That doesn't mean you are doing it wrong.
You won't always feels the...
I am 2 years away from my last drink.
Looking back, I’d love to tell myself then, what I know now.
The biggest lesson would be, that I wouldn't always feel the way I felt.
Getting sober was a process.
I had to go through each phase, before I reached the next.
Just because it didn't...
On February 20, 2020 I am celebrating 2 years of sobriety.
Two years ago, I was just existing, robotically going through the motions of life.
Today I really living out my dreams and I look forward to nearly everything.
My first year getting sober was absolutely epic.
I relearned how to do...
One of the best outcomes of sobriety is going from a dull existence to a vivid electric life. When you stop dulling your senses and escaping your feelings, you get in touch with your own intuition and you start to trust yourself. Your confidence grows and that is the ultimate glow up. This...
The first Friday of February has been designated by the awareness campaign in the US, as National Wear Red Day to support women’s heart health.
If you drink red wine, like I did, you love the research studies that claim drinking red wine is good for the heart. I liked to spread the...
There should be no question that #soberissexy after the 2020 Super Bowl. It started out with the beautiful Demi Lovato singing the national anthem. It's no secret that Demi has struggled with addiction. Demi has been transparent about her journey. She is not alone, as more than 1 in 7 people over...
Getting onboard with an alcohol free lifestyle is getting easier thanks to the increase of low or no alcohol beverages on the market these days. Nielsen CGA reports that the demand for these drinks will increase in 2020 and beyond. The younger generations are leading the change with a...
I just saw a post by a nutritionist saying you can drink alcohol and still lose weight.
Her profile says she’s a wellness coach and nutritionist whose main goal is to help people feel good about themselves.
She’s proof because she reports that she has been doing this all...
The top HR trends reported for 2020 are employee engagement, eliminating sexual harassment, and nurturing employee mental health and work life balance, according to Smart Brief.
The best way to be on top of these HR trends is to remove alcohol from your workplace.
Many companies use...
Alcohol is a ubiquitous part of our culture. Socializing with colleagues after work, the office holiday party, unwinding after an exhausting day—all of these occasions often revolve around drinking and can be awkward for people who don’t partake.
Until recently, that is.
A...
In sobriety I have found new hobbies and interests.
Drinking is no longer my only form of entertainment.
The automatic cure for my perpetual boredom when I was drinking, was obviously...drinking.
I am no longer entertained by sitting on the couch for hours sipping a substance into oblivion....
What is Dry January?
Dry January started in 2013 in the UK with Alastair Campbell, a columnist and political strategist, talking about his past drinking, and columnist Peter Oborne trying out the month off booze.
In 2014 the University of Sussex started research on the benefits of Dry...
2019 was my best year yet.
At the beginning of 2018, I made a decision to stop drinking alcohol for good. This was the best decision of my life. I spent 2018 learning how to do everything over again, without alcohol.
My growth was incredible. I learned so much about myself. I spent...
My heart is breaking this morning, Zahra because I miss you so much.
I am on my couch crying with the feeling of missing.
Wishing I could be with you.
Really wishing you were here with me.
I want to give you a warm bath, clean pajamas, a hot meal, and then rock you, sing...
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