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I've supported and inspired thousands and sat privately with 300+ high-achieving women,who ditched the drink, took their power back, and built lives they love waking up to.

 

Whether you're sober-curious, starting over (again), or ready to do something bigger with your new freedom—I'll help you skip the shame, own your story, and follow a proven path that actually works for smart, busy people.

Hi, I'm Heather Lowe—an award-winning certified sober coach for women and a business mentor for sober coaches. Maybe alcohol stopped being your friend. Maybe you're just sick and tired of being sick and tired. Either way, I've been there. I had the clean house, the good job, the happy kids—and a secret I was carrying alone. I found my way out, and I've helped 300+ women do the same one-on-one, and thousands more through community, newsletter, speaking, events, and social media. You don't have to do this alone, and you don't have to hit a bottom to start.

 

Hi! I'm Heather.

I've helped 300+ high-achieving women ditch the drink, take their power back, and build lives they love waking up to.

Whether you're sober-curious, starting over (again), or ready to turn your own freedom into a career—we'll help you skip the shame, keep your privacy, and use a proven path that actually works for smart, busy women.

If alcohol is starting to take more than it gives,
I want you to know; there is nothing wrong with you

Meet Heather


Hi—I’m Heather Lowe,
BSW, CPRC, CPC, CFAA-HR, PHR


I started Ditched the Drink because I know what it feels like to look successful on the outside while feeling stuck in unhealthy patterns on the inside. I was filled with feelings, doubts, and questions too.


There’s nothing wrong with you if alcohol feels different now. These are signals, not failures, and they’re pointing you toward another way.


As a Certified Professional Life + Sobriety Coach (and a former corporate leader who’s walked this same road), I built this space to help smart, successful women create clarity, confidence, and freedom, without labels, pressure, or shame.

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This space is yours. A free 5-part audio series designed for the woman who’s quietly questioning, softly exploring, and maybe not quite ready to “quit”… but ready for something more.

You won't find this on Spotify; it won't show up on your social media feed.

It's private. The perfect first step when you're still just… wondering.

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DEFINITION OF A DITCHED THE DRINK WOMAN

She's not "an alcoholic."
She's just over it.

  • She's built a career, a family, and a full life—and she's done letting alcohol quietly shrink it.
    • She's tired of the 3 am math and the Monday promises and wondering if she's the problem. She's not. The drink is.
  • She doesn't need a rock bottom or a label to choose better—being over it is reason enough.
  • And as she gets free, she discovers what the wine never told her: she was whole the entire time.
MEET HEATHER, YOUR SOBER LIFE COACH
HOW TO WORK WITH ME

Four doors. Pick yours.

The best sober coach and business mentor for you is the one who's been where you are and knows the way out.

Here's how we walk it together:

01 · THE COMMUNITY 
MEMBERSHIP

The INsider

Ditch the drink alongside the most supportive women's community on the internet—twice-a-week group coaching (replays always available), a private 24/7 app, masterclasses, workshops, challenges, a book club, IRL retreats, and first access and discounts on all offers. $34/mo.

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02 · THE DIGITAL COURSE

Jumpstart

Jumpstart is a self-paced digital course designed for high-achieving women quietly questioning their drinking.

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03 · THE 1:1 EXPERIENCE

Becoming

12 weeks of private coaching with a proven framework— just you and me. Personalized strategy, between-session support, and optional Human Design + custom Yoga Nidra sessions for deeper insight.

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04 · THE BUSINESS 

Dare to Dream Collective

Turn your freedom into a career, passion project, advocacy, or hobby pursuit with co-ed business mentorship and a mastermind community for alcohol-free entrepreneurs.

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TESTIMONIALS

trusted by thousands and 1:1 by 300+ women who were so over it—and now are free.

Named Sober Coach of the Year by Sans Bar Academy, Top Sober Coach by Coach Foundation, Top Life Coach for Addiction and Recovery by Life Coach Magazine, Most Influential Person and Favorite Support Community in the Alcohol-Free Space by AFter Magazine, and FeedSpot's Top 100 Sober Coaches list.

The ratings say "best sober coach"—the women below say it better.

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You don’t have to figure everything out today, but clarity helps.
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ONE SMALL STEP

The drink kept its promises to no one.

I keep mine.

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