A Fresh Start, Self-Doubt and Receiving Recognition

I welcomed the new year from Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. One of my favorite places. My honeymoon spot. We attended a New Year's Eve party on the beach with fire dancers, fireworks, and the whole she-bang. I planned ahead right before midnight and asked for club soda, no ice. Then I grabbed a champagne flute from a tray and poured it in so I could have my New Year's toast. Then I iconically turned it upside down and snapped a picture in front of a firework, recreating my logo. I really impressed myself with this one. I hope you saw it on Instagram. I am sure we can make it a DTD movement, so I continued to do that and take those pictures for the rest of the trip. Join in and tag me when you tip your empty glass upside down. I'll be dripping more of my pics in the following weeks too. We'll go viral together. I love this idea.

I saw whales and ate ceviche at every meal. I spoke mas o menos Spanish and napped every day. It was lovely. I watched a little spider spin her web, just fascinated for a good long time. I was entranced by her wonder. I listened to parakeets singing to each other. I had a real break from the grind and the hustle, and I loved it. I needed the reset. I have to be honest, it was a real buzzkill to come home.

I am my own boss of my own company that I created and love, and I didn't want to go back to work. I said to my husband, "If this doesn't make me happy, what will?!" as we were in line for customs to get back into the country.

I came back to a full day of client calls, and I was dreading getting back to it. I got on my first call, saw my client's lovely face, and I was immediately so happy to be there. I wanted to hear how her New Year went. Then I got on the next call, and I loved hearing the huge yet subtle shifts of growth this woman was making in her life. The day continued just like that. I was so happy. I was so grateful. I loved reconnecting with these women.

For the record, they were saying, "You were right!" (that it gets easier after 90 days), and "I didn't believe you at first, but it's so easy now!" It was like music to my ears. 

Coaching is effective for creating and sustaining transformation. The results and testimonials speak for themselves. I cannot recommend it enough, but you already knew that. I have a few spots left in my brand new annual program, Unleash Yourself (click to learn more). I think you should commit to a year of self-discovery with me. I really do. No one has ever regretted it.

It can sound daunting, but what if you used this year to work on yourself with expert guidance? What if you learned how to take really good care of yourself? What if you got to know yourself better? What if you could sit and watch a spider spin her web in total peace and contentment? What if you addressed alcohol and then grew the confidence to address all the other things that were holding you back? What if you learned to forgive yourself? What if you learned how to change that mean voice in your head? One year is nothing, and it is everything for your lifetime. Don't waste another year wishing you were taking action but unsure how to take the first step. Take the first step, and the path will reveal itself. I promise you. Schedule your complimentary call here. 

I was sitting on the beach alone with my coffee on the first morning when the news came in that I was recognized by AFTER Magazine readers in three categories as a top pick in the 2024-2025 Alcohol-Free Survey. The most influential person, best podcast, and best community. 

This came at a time when I was feeling full of self-doubt. I want everyone to know that. You can be winning awards and also still full of self-doubt. I will be sharing more on this soon, and it's something we talk about in my Alcohol-Free Mastermind. Business owners or wannabe business owners are welcome to join us.

This recognition was a great boost for me because I am without a doubt the underdog in every single category. I am in the best company with people I really admire. I don’t have the largest social media following or the biggest email list; my podcast is brand new, and my Insider community is small and intimate.

Yet you showed up and voted for me, and it brought me to tears. It was a good reminder that you don’t need to be the biggest to make a big difference. I didn’t start Ditched the Drink to be one of the most influential people, but you know what?! Holy cow, I will take it! I will accept and receive with so much joy and gratitude. Thank you!

Season 2 of the Peripeteia Podcast is dropping this week, and it's so good. Kicking off with my dream guest. Literally, a friend asked who my dream guest would be, and I said this woman. Pinch me, it's done. I'll be sharing soon. 

Happy new year to you! Let's make it a good one! XO!