This Isn’t Just My Story…
It Might Be Yours Too
“You’ve kept it all together. Career, family, life—it looks good from the outside.”
But inside? You’ve been quietly wondering if alcohol is still working for you. And you’re not sure where that question leads.
At Ditched the Drink, I offer sober coaching for women who don’t need a dramatic rock bottom to make a powerful change. You just need a quiet space to ask better questions—without judgment, without shame.

I’m Heather Lowe
Certified Professional Coach and founder of Ditched the Drink.
But before I ever coached a client or led a workshop, I was just a high-functioning woman trying to make sense of my relationship with alcohol.
I had the education, the resume, and the family.
But I also had a constant undercurrent of unease, like I was performing my life instead of fully living it.
The turning point wasn’t dramatic.
It was a whisper: What if it could feel better than this?
Who I Help
You don’t have to be “struggling” to want something better.
I work with:

Women rethinking alcohol—without committing to forever

High performers who are tired of self-moderation that never sticks

Quiet questioners ready for private, safe support

Professionals craving clarity, presence, and purpose
You don’t have to burn everything down.
You just have to start where you are.
What Working with Me Looks Like
Change doesn’t have to be loud to be life-changing. Whether you're just curious or ready for support, there’s a path that meets you where you are:

Prefer community and structure?
Join the Insider Membership—where you’ll find tools, coaching, and a private space for your next chapter.

Want to dip a toe in?
Start with Quiet Shifts, a private podcast series for high-achieving women quietly rethinking their relationship with alcohol.
No pressure. Just perspective.

Want a more personal plan?
Apply for 1:1 Coaching for custom support, strategy, and accountability rooted in lived experience and professional expertise.
Client Reflections
Testimonials Here
Still Curious?
